Stayed at a mountain view guesthouse in Dali and don’t want to leave.
Lying around in Dali for 7 days, I finally understand what "relaxation" really means.
I used to rush through trips, visiting five or six spots a day, taking tons of photos, and coming back exhausted—feeling even more tired than working. This time in Dali, I decided not to plan anything, just wander around freely and do whatever I wanted.
And... this turned out to be my most comfortable trip ever 🌿
🏘️ Shaxi Ancient Town — Time slows down here
It’s a two-hour drive from Dali to Shaxi, the route is a bit winding, but totally worth it.
Shaxi is incredibly quiet, completely different from Dali Old Town. There are no noisy bars, no hawking aunties, just an ancient theater stage, weathered earthen walls, leisurely old folks, and the centuries-old locust tree on Sideng Street.
I stayed in Shaxi for two days, waking up naturally each day, then strolling around Sifang Street, sitting in a café all afternoon, or daydreaming on Yujin Bridge. Time seems to slow down here—you don’t have to rush or think about where to go next, just enjoy the moment.
💡 Shaxi Tips:
· There’s a market on Fridays, very lively, locals come, definitely worth experiencing
· Don’t miss the Vanguard Bookstore, located in an ancient village, very atmospheric
· At night, sit at the bar next to the theater stage, listen to music, very relaxing
· Stay overnight; Shaxi feels completely different by day and night
🌾 Xizhou — Summer in the rice fields
I’ve been to Xizhou three times, and each visit feels different.
In July, the rice fields are lush green, and when the wind blows, the waves of rice ripple layer by layer—super soothing. I sat in a café by the fields all afternoon, staring at the rice, sipping coffee, and all worries just melted away.
Xizhou Ancient Town is also great for wandering. The Bai ethnic old buildings are full of character. You can visit the Yan Family Courtyard to learn about Bai architecture culture. And you must try Xizhou Baba, both savory and sweet are delicious—I always buy several every time I go.
💡 Xizhou Photo Tips:
· Wear light-colored clothes for rice field photos, they match the green perfectly
· Visit the corner building, the famous photo spot, it really looks great in pictures
· Go early in the morning when it’s less crowded and the light is good
· Don’t step on the rice fields! Don’t step on the rice fields! Don’t step on the rice fields! Important enough to say three times
⛩️ Wuwei Temple — The quietest place in Dali
Wuwei Temple was the biggest surprise of this trip.
About a 20-minute drive from the old town, hidden deep in Cangshan Mountain, it’s a royal temple of the Nanzhao Kingdom with over a thousand years of history.
The temple is extremely quiet, almost no tourists, only a few monks sweeping and chanting. When I visited, it was raining, raindrops rustling on the leaves, and with the distant bell sounds, I felt completely calm.
There’s a mountain spring in the temple, super sweet! I filled a bottle and it tastes better than mineral water. There’s also free vegetarian meals, but you need to book in advance—I missed out, a bit regretful. Next time I’ll definitely try it.
💡 Wuwei Temple Notes:
· Be quiet inside, no loud talking
· Respect temple rules, don’t touch things randomly
· Bring an empty bottle to collect spring water
· The road is a bit winding, drive slowly
🌿 The everyday life in Dali is the best
This time in Dali, I didn’t rush to see sights but experienced a lot of "everyday" things.
In the morning, I’d stroll through the old town’s market, buy fresh fruit, and eat a bowl of er si (rice noodle soup); at noon, find a small Bai family-run restaurant for home-style dishes; in the afternoon, walk by Erhai Lake or find a café to read; at night, wander the old town and listen to street singers.
You’ll find that Dali’s beauty isn’t in the tourist spots but in these little daily moments. It’s the breeze by Erhai, the sunshine in the old town, a bowl of cold chicken rice noodles from a street stall, a smile from a stranger.
I used to think traveling meant visiting many places and seeing lots of sights, but now I realize slowing down and feeling the life of a place is the true meaning of travel.
✨ Final thoughts
Dali is a magical place. It seems to have a power that lets you slow down, calm down, and forget the anxiety and troubles of city life.
If you’re tired and weary, come stay in Dali for a few days. No need to rush or check off sights, just wander, soak up the sun, feel the breeze, and you’ll discover... life can be this comfortable.
Anyway, I don’t want to leave. Whoever loves working can go back—I’m going to lie flat in Dali 😌
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Accommodation
🏨 Peninsula Boxin · Wuwen Shanhai | OceanView Cliffside Sea-view Guesthouse
On the Erhai cliffside in Shuanglang, floor-to-ceiling windows facing Cangshan and Erhai, infinity pool perfect for photos, a few minutes’ walk to the old town
🏨 In the Forest · Designer Wild Luxury Guesthouse
Backed by Cangshan, facing Erhai, quiet and private, clean rooms with super comfortable bedding, great value for money
🏨 Shuanglang Bozhouli · Seaview Resort Guesthouse
Waterfront sea view in Shuanglang, wabi-sabi style with great texture, open the window and you’re right on the water, perfect for sunsets and starry skies
🏨 Yueyin Court · Nocturne Villa
Halfway up the hill in Haidong Wenbi Village, wide open views with no obstructions, perfect spot for sunsets, full vacation vibe