Guest User
February 13, 2024
In general, the hotel facilities, lunch and the spa (a Virgin Active) were thoroughly enjoyable and I have a wonderful day. However, I found myself greeted with a subtle yet unmistakable reminder of the persistent challenge of gender inequality. Despite the booking clearly stating my name, it seemed that my presence was overshadowed by the assumption that my male friend accompanying me held a superior status. The scenario unfolded during the check-out process - the hotel staff of Asian origin, directed their attention towards my male friend, automatically assuming that he was the primary figure in our arrangement. With a quick glance at him, they altered the honorific and changed it to the male version of my given name, a blatant disregard for my presence and identity. I felt a surge of frustration and disappointment at the ingrained biases that continue to permeate our society, even in seemingly trivial interactions. Despite strides towards gender equality, such instances serve as poignant reminders of the work that remains to be done. Politely but firmly, I corrected the staff, emphasising that the booking was made under my name and that I was indeed paying for the use of the hotel and the spa. Though met with initial surprise, they swiftly rectified their mistake, acknowledging my presence and addressing me directly. I was able to enjoy my day at the spa, but the experience left an indelible mark, reinforcing my commitment to championing gender equality and challenging societal norms that perpetuate discrimination based on gender.